Follow-Up Questionnaires

Please indicate the degree of happiness, all things considered, of your relationship. *

0 - Extremely Unhappy, 1 - Fairly Unhappy, 2 - A Little Unhappy, 3 - Happy, 4 - Very Happy, 5 - Extremely Happy, 6 - Perfect

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I am satisfied with the amount of time that we spend together *

0 - Always Disagree, 1 - Almost Always Disagree, 2 - Frequently Disagree, 3 - Occasionally Disagree, 4 - Almost Always Agree, 5 - Always Agree

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We make major decisions well together *

0 - Always Disagree, 1 - Almost Always Disagree, 2 - Frequently Disagree, 3 - Occasionally Disagree, 4 - Almost Always Agree, 5 - Always Agree

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I like how we demonstrate affection *

0 - Always Disagree, 1 - Almost Always Disagree, 2 - Frequently Disagree, 3 - Occasionally Disagree, 4 - Almost Always Agree, 5 - Always Agree

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In general, how often do you think that things between you and your partner are going well? *

0 - Never, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Occasionally, 3 - More Often Than Not, 4 - Most of the Time, 5 - All the Time

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How often do you wish you hadn't gotten into this relationship? *

0 - Never, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Occasionally, 3 - More Often Than Not, 4 - Most of the Time, 5 - All the Time

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I still feel a strong connection with my partner *

0 - Not At All True, 1 - A Little True, 2 - Somewhat True, 3 - Mostly True, 4 - Almost Completely True, 5 - Completely True

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If I had my life to live over, I would marry (or live with/date) the same person *

0 - Not At All True, 1 - A Little True, 2 - Somewhat True, 3 - Mostly True, 4 - Almost Completely True, 5 - Completely True

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Our relationship is strong *

0 - Not At All True, 1 - A Little True, 2 - Somewhat True, 3 - Mostly True, 4 - Almost Completely True, 5 - Completely True

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I sometimes wonder if there is someone else out there for me *

5 - Not At All True, 4 - A Little True, 3 - Somewhat True, 2 - Mostly True, 1 - Almost Completely True, 0 - Completely True

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My relationship with my partner makes me happy *

0 - Not At All True, 1 - A Little True, 2 - Somewhat True, 3 - Mostly True, 4 - Almost Completely True, 5 - Completely True

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I have a warm and comfortable relationship with my partner. *

0 - Not At All True, 1 - A Little True, 2 - Somewhat True, 3 - Mostly True, 4 - Almost Completely True, 5 - Completely True

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I can't imagine ending my relationship with my partner *

0 - Not At All True, 1 - A Little True, 2 - Somewhat True, 3 - Mostly True, 4 - Almost Completely True, 5 - Completely True

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I feel I can confide in my partner about virtually anything *

0 - Not At All True, 1 - A Little True, 2 - Somewhat True, 3 - Mostly True, 4 - Almost Completely True, 5 - Completely True

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I have had second thoughts about this relationship recently *

5 - Not At All True, 4 - A Little True, 3 - Somewhat True, 2 - Mostly True, 1 - Almost Completely True, 0 - Completely True

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For me, my partner is the perfect romantic partner *

0 - Not At All True, 1 - A Little True, 2 - Somewhat True, 3 - Mostly True, 4 - Almost Completely True, 5 - Completely True

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I really feel like a part of a team with my partner *

0 - Not At All True, 1 - A Little True, 2 - Somewhat True, 3 - Mostly True, 4 - Almost Completely True, 5 - Completely True

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I cannot imagine another person making me as happy as my partner does *

0 - Not At All True, 1 - A Little True, 2 - Somewhat True, 3 - Mostly True, 4 - Almost Completely True, 5 - Completely True

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How rewarding is your relationship with your partner? *

0 - Not at all 1 - A little 2 - Somewhat 3 - Mostly 4 - Almost Completely 5 - Completely

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How well does your partner meet your needs? *

0 - Not at all 1 - A little 2 - Somewhat 3 - Mostly 4 - Almost Completely 5 - Completely

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To what extent has your relationship met your original expectations? *

0 - Not at all 1 - A little 2 - Somewhat 3 - Mostly 4 - Almost Completely 5 - Completely

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In general, how satisfied are you with your relationship? *

0 - Not at all 1 - A little 2 - Somewhat 3 - Mostly 4 - Almost Completely 5 - Completely

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How good is your relationship compared to most? *

0 - Worse than all others (Extremely bad) to 5 - Better than all others (Extremely good)

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Do you enjoy your partner's company? *

0 - Never 1 - Less Than Once a Month 2 - Once or Twice a Month 3 - Once or Twice a Week 4 - Once a Day 5 - More Often

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How often do you and your partner have fun together? *

0 - Never 1 - Less Than Once a Month 2 - Once or Twice a Month 3 - Once or Twice a Week 4 - Once a Day 5 - More Often

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How would you rate your relationship, where 0 means "Boring" and 5 means "Interesting"? *

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How would you rate your relationship, where 0 means "Bad" and 5 means "Good"? *

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How would you rate your relationship, where 0 means "Empty" and 5 means "Full"? *

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How would you rate your relationship, where 0 means "Lonely" and 5 means "Friendly"? *

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How would you rate your relationship, where 0 means "Fragile" and 5 means "Sturdy"? *

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How would you rate your relationship, where 0 means "Discouraging" and 5 means "Hopeful"? *

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How would you rate your relationship, where 0 means "Miserable" and 5 means "Enjoyable"? *

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When an issue or problem arises, we both tend to avoid discussing it *

Please rate on a scale of 1 to 9, where 1 means "Very Unlikely" and 9 means "Very Likely"

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When an issue or problem arises, we both try to discuss it *

Please rate on a scale of 1 to 9, where 1 means "Very Unlikely" and 9 means "Very Likely"

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When an issue or problem arises, I try to discuss it and my partner tries to avoid it *

Please rate on a scale of 1 to 9, where 1 means "Very Unlikely" and 9 means "Very Likely"

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When an issue or problem arises, my partner tries to discuss it and I try to avoid it *

Please rate on a scale of 1 to 9, where 1 means "Very Unlikely" and 9 means "Very Likely"

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During a discussion of an issue or problem, we both express our feelings to each other *

Please rate on a scale of 1 to 9, where 1 means "Very Unlikely" and 9 means "Very Likely"

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During a discussion of an issue or problem, we both blame, accuse and criticise each other *

Please rate on a scale of 1 to 9, where 1 means "Very Unlikely" and 9 means "Very Likely"

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During a discussion of an issue or problem, we both suggest possible solutions and compromises *

Please rate on a scale of 1 to 9, where 1 means "Very Unlikely" and 9 means "Very Likely"

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During a discussion of an issue or problem, I pressure, nag, or demand while my partner withdraws, becomes silent, or refuses to discuss the matter further *

Please rate on a scale of 1 to 9, where 1 means "Very Unlikely" and 9 means "Very Likely"

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During a discussion of an issue or problem, my partner pressures, nags, or demands while I withdraw, become silent, or refuse to discuss the matter further *

Please rate on a scale of 1 to 9, where 1 means "Very Unlikely" and 9 means "Very Likely"

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During a discussion of an issue or problem, I criticise while my partner defends his/herself *

Please rate on a scale of 1 to 9, where 1 means "Very Unlikely" and 9 means "Very Likely"

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During a discussion of an issue or problem, my partner criticises while I defend myself *

Please rate on a scale of 1 to 9, where 1 means "Very Unlikely" and 9 means "Very Likely"

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My partner keeps bringing up mistakes that I have made in the past *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner caresses me during foreplay so that I get sexually aroused *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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I noticed that my partner finds me physically attactive *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner tells me that he/she is content when we are together *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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Before we go to sleep, we cuddle each other in bed *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner starts a quarrel over minor things *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner shares his/her thoughts and feelings openly with me *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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When we quarrel, he/she insults me *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner responds positively to my sexual desires *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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We make plans together for the future *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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When my partner talks about his/her work, he/she wants to hear my opinion *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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We make plans together for how we want to spend the weekend *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner touches me tenderly and I like it *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner gives me sincere compliments on my appearance *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner discusses things about his/her work life with me *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner makes an effort to be attentive to my wishes and fulfills them when the opportunity arises *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner criticises me sarcastically *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner makes derogatory remarks about my opinions *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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When my partner has clearly treated me wrongly, he/she later apologises to me *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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We usually spend at least half an hour talking to each other in the evening *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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When we quarrel, we can never resolve it *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner blames me when something goes wrong *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner hugs me *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner shouts at me during a quarrel *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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In the evenings, my partner asks me what I have done during the day *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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When we quarrel, my partner turns around what I say to mean the opposite *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner talks to me about his/her sexual desires *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner caresses me tenderly *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner tells me that he/she cares about me *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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My partner restricts my personal freedom *

0 - Never/Very Rarely, 1 - Rarely, 2 - Often, 3 - Very Often

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How happy would you rate your partnership at the moment? *

0 - Very Unhappy, 1 - Unhappy, 2 - Rather Unhappy, 3 - Rather Happy, 4 - Happy, 5 - Very Happy

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Money *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Professional Life *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Household Management *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Parenting/Discipling Children *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Recreation, Leisure Time *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Friends and Acquaintances *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Temperament of Partner *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Showing Affection/Love of Partner *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Attractiveness *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Trust *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Jealousy *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Independence *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Sexuality *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Infidelity *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Relatives, In-Laws *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Personal Habits of Partner *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Communication *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Family Planning *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Lack of Acceptance/Support by Partner *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Demands of the Partner *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Illnesses/Disabilities/Mental Health Problems *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Use of Alcohol/Medicaments/Drugs *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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Aggression/Violence *

If, and to what extent, is this an issue in your relationship? 0 - No conflicts, 1 - Conflicts with successful solutions, 2 - Conflicts with no solutions and frequent arguments, 3 - Conflicts, but we hardly talk about it

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